🧊 You Attract Emotionally Unavailable People
Because You Were Taught to Wait for Love — Not Receive It
By Ditya Divine Code | Ditya Group
You fall for people who breadcrumb you.
Who give just enough to keep you hoping…
…but never enough to feel held.
They’re inconsistent.
Confusing.
Distant.
And yet — you stay.
Why?
Because somewhere deep within, you were programmed to wait for love.
Not expect it. Not ask for it.
Just... wait and prove you’re worthy.
👶 Childhood That Confused Love With Effort
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Did you have to earn affection?
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Were you told to be “good” to be loved?
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Was love withdrawn when you needed it most?
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Did you feel invisible unless you performed?
Then you were taught:
“If I wait patiently and love harder, they’ll choose me.”
😣 The Pattern You Mistake for Passion
Now you:
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Confuse hot-and-cold behavior for intensity
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Believe love should feel like “earning a prize”
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Feel anxious when someone is genuinely available
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Stay longer in situations that drain your worth
You’re not broken.
You’re loyal to your pain blueprint.
But that can change.
🔢 Numerology Clues to This Pattern
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Life Path 6 or 9 = overgivers, believe in fixing others
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Name total 5 or 7 = crave freedom but fall into emotional entanglement
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Master 11 = deep emotional attractor, often misunderstood
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DOBs with 2s and 8s = intense need for recognition in love
🧘♀️ Ditya Divine Code Rituals for Rewriting Love Patterns
✔️ “What Love Should Have Felt Like” Visualization
✔️ Unavailable Attraction Tracker – Catch the Cycle
✔️ Numerology-Based Heart Healing Sheet
✔️ Self-Receiving Mirror Dialogue Practice
✔️ Relationship Worth Audit (You vs Them)
💬 Are You Tired of Chasing Emotionally Cold People?
💬 DM: @dityagroup
📌 Message: “I’m ready to stop begging for love.”
🔮 Book: Ditya Relationship Reset Session — Because your love deserves space, not silence.
You don’t have to earn real love.
You just have to unlearn what made you wait for it.
How do you always know exactly what I need to hear?
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