馃帀 Why You Can’t Celebrate Your Wins
It’s Not Humility. It’s Emotional Suppression You Were Taught as a Child. By Ditya Divine Code | Ditya Group You achieve something meaningful. People applaud. But inside… you feel blank. Maybe even guilty. You rush past your own success. You underplay it. You say things like: “It’s no big deal.” “I just got lucky.” “Let’s see how long it lasts…” This isn’t modesty. This is emotional disconnection . 馃懚 Childhood Teaches Us How to React to Joy Were you told: “Don’t show off” “Stay humble” (even when it meant shrinking) “If you celebrate too much, something will go wrong”? Then joy became unsafe. And your nervous system learned to downplay anything good — to stay protected. 馃 Suppression Disguised as Humility You learned that: Being too happy = something bad might follow Expressing pride = others will pull away Sharing success = others will feel small Celebrating = selfish So now, even when you’re winning… Your inner child is whispering: ...