馃 You Keep People Who Drain You
Because You Mistake Loyalty for Love By Ditya Divine Code | Ditya Group They cancel plans. Forget your efforts. Make you feel invisible unless they need something. But you still stay. Still check on them. Still defend them when others question you. Why? Because you were taught that leaving is betrayal. And that endurance is proof of love. 馃П Loyalty Was Taught, Not Chosen In your early world: You had to be “the good one” You were praised for being “low maintenance” You saw love defined by sacrifice, not safety You were told: “real love stays, no matter what” So you started to measure your worth By how much pain you could take without breaking. 馃挃 What It Looks Like Today You explain others’ bad behavior by saying “they’re going through something” You fear walking away even when it hurts You hold space for people who never hold space for you You feel guilty even thinking about leaving You stay loyal to someone who makes you feel small ...