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馃檹 Why You Over-Apologize for Everything

Because You Were Punished Just for Existing By Ditya Divine Code | Ditya Group You say "sorry" without even thinking. You apologize for your emotions… for your timing… sometimes just for being there . Even when it’s not your fault. But here’s the truth: You’re not over-polite. You’re over-conditioned. You were trained to believe your presence caused problems . 馃懚 When Existing Felt Like a Threat As a child, if you were: Yelled at for crying Ignored when hurt Blamed for things you didn’t do Told you were “too much” or “too sensitive” You learned one painful belief: “If something’s wrong, it must be me.” And to survive, you started pre-blaming yourself before others could. 馃槥 Apology Becomes a Shield Now you say: “Sorry, I’m just emotional.” “Sorry to bother you.” “Sorry I took your time.” “Sorry, sorry, sorry…” But you’re not sorry. You’re scared. Scared of being rejected. Scared of being seen as a problem. Scared of being ...

馃帀 Why You Can’t Celebrate Your Wins

It’s Not Humility. It’s Emotional Suppression You Were Taught as a Child. By Ditya Divine Code | Ditya Group You achieve something meaningful. People applaud. But inside… you feel blank. Maybe even guilty. You rush past your own success. You underplay it. You say things like: “It’s no big deal.” “I just got lucky.” “Let’s see how long it lasts…” This isn’t modesty. This is emotional disconnection . 馃懚 Childhood Teaches Us How to React to Joy Were you told: “Don’t show off” “Stay humble” (even when it meant shrinking) “If you celebrate too much, something will go wrong”? Then joy became unsafe. And your nervous system learned to downplay anything good — to stay protected. 馃 Suppression Disguised as Humility You learned that: Being too happy = something bad might follow Expressing pride = others will pull away Sharing success = others will feel small Celebrating = selfish So now, even when you’re winning… Your inner child is whispering: ...